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Tony Perez
Dec 31, 2024
In General Discussion
Sending everyone best wishes for a happy New Year from Downunder.
It looks like Brisbane is going to have a wet end to 2024 but the grass is always greener after a storm, so I thought this might be a good opportunity to take aim and share some focussed mindscope thoughts to usher in the year ahead.
1. Align your thought processes with positive imagery to chart your course.
2. Gain clarity by increasing your awareness of and ‘mindmunch’ on the patterns that rule nature and ensure a seamless and fluid order to the world we live in.
3. Flex your ’mindscope’ to squeeze something out of you that you didn’t know was there and in so doing train your soul.
4. There is a new hunger for peace. Focus your ‘mindscope’, play your part and believe the seeds of peace you plant today will take root in your children and grandchildren’s lives.
5. Not everything is what it seems. Use your ‘mindsight’ to ‘think your see’.
6. Mindflip reality because everything has an opposite and reverse. The truth is, most people don't live, they race. Holding hands and sticking together will make us all feel happier and less lonely. Look at the ‘seat of you’ to work on your happiness.
7. Tune your ‘mindsound’. Listen to the sounds coming out of you. Every thought, emotion, belief, or behavior you have creates a frequency that travels outside your body, carrying that frequency in a wave of vibration that's either positive or negative, influencing the world around you.
8. A person’s strength doesn’t lie in their sword but in their brain. Your heart has its own brain. The higher order of logic and understanding comes from the heart. Unlocking your heart opens awareness to feelings and allows us to receive thoughts that lead with compassion. Your heart is free, have the courage to follow it. ‘Hold your think’ on this because this is a strength not taught.
9. What you care about, you attract. What you attract, you create. What you create, you harvest. Reach out and touch somebody. What kind of touch will you add?
10. Remember, gates swing open, gates swing closed…and gates lock. Recognize you have choices. Aligning your choices with discipline will create moderation which leads to balance and balance leads to peace. Run your dream. Earn your tranquility and 'miti your gates'.
11. There are lines seen and lines unseen. There are lines straight, and lines curved. There are blurred lines. There are curved lines that begin where they end, making a circle. A line is a moral code. A circle of ethics with boundaries. Your lines define who you are.
12. When life is out of balance, wobble happens. Is the weight, mass, and density of your dark and light sides, proportioned? Synchronize your spin with your juggle.
Happy New Year everyone.
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Tony Perez
Sep 02, 2024
In General Discussion
Great time had at Surfer’s Paradise on our fabulous Gold Cast yesterday afternoon. Dominic Jones from Sendai, Japan caught up with Ian Ratcliffe and I from Brisbane to spend some time working on American Chuan Fa and Paxtial Arts concepts that went late into the evening.
It’s an absolute pleasure to have Dominic join us on his 2nd trip “Downunder”. It’s turning out to be an annual event.
We have a couple more chances throughout the week to get together before Dominic heads home on Sunday. Suffice to say there’s some great exchanges of philosophies, knowledge, skills and experiences amongst the 3 of us.
So good to have you here Dominic albeit briefly.
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Tony Perez
Apr 18, 2024
In General Discussion
Whilst recovering from my third surgery in the past five weeks to rid myself of the Rock of Gibraltar in my left kidney, I’ve had plenty of time to do nothing more than be still and think. Still water runs deep and this post is what I’ve reflected on.
Paxtial Arts is about expanding your training horizons which begins with broadening your mind to accept other possibilities outside of the box of your conventional curriculum, which widens the context and enhances the potential for personal relevance.
Paxtial Arts is not something you do, it is something you become - at peace with yourself, the world, and your place in it. It is in this stillness where the true magic of your Art lay hidden, waiting to be discovered.
We have lost this stillness while running the treadmill of life and I can’t help but wonder what the world would be like if we could reconnect to this stillness and entertain at least the notion of a completely different internal dialogue focussed on the quality of engagement with ourself and the world around us.
This is what we must leave behind for our grandchildren and great grandchildren, the gift of stillness.
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Tony Perez
Apr 15, 2024
In General Discussion
My grandson Charles was having a sleepover with us this past weekend. On Sunday morning he awoke bright and early and declared, “Poppy, I’m ready for you to start teaching me karate.” And with that and a smile on his little face, he handed me his mums (my daughter Tash’s) white belt from 20 years ago. He quickly snapped to attention, bowed, and dropped into his meditating horse stance. Then arms and legs started going everywhere as he morphed into a ninja turtle lol.
Charles is 6 and has Autism and ADHD. I’ve been hesitant to teaching him anything more than standing in a meditating horse stance to develop his discipline, control his breathing and become still. In this position he knows the only two things he is allowed to do is blink and breathe. Seeing how highly stimulated he was, I took this opportunity to give him his very first lesson in Paxtial Arts.
I’d been thinking about how to teach what we have learned thus far in the philosophy course and I figured if I can teach Charlie, I can teach anyone. So I plugged my laptop into my 75” TV and put up an image of our glyph wheel. I asked him to get his colouring pencils, some blank paper and to take a seat.
I asked him what do you see? He said, “this isn’t karate Poppy”. I asked more specifically, tell me three things you see. He answered, “circles, lines and colours, it this isn’t karate Poppy, I want you to teach me what you taught mummy and Chloe (one of younger students preparing for her junior black belt exam). Time for a “pattern interrupt” and so I told him that his mum and Chloe and I had to start at the beginning, pointing as I said that to the mind section course glyph. I asked Charles, what does that look like and he answered, “my brain”. Perfect I said, and asked him if he could use his brain to draw the glyph wheel.
After drawing this and writing, “Charles my glyph wheel” on the paper, I asked if he could name the colours of the course glyphs. Interestingly he went counterclockwise starting with the colours for Certify, Qualify, and Freeflow rather than clockwise with Philosophy, History, and Law.
Time for another pattern interrupt. I said, “Hey Charlie, you’re good at math right?” and handed him another set of paper. I asked him to write down the number zero. What does that look like I asked and he replied, “a circle Poppy”. Show me how you right that down, I asked. He did that and I then asked what is zero plus one. He wrote that down and I asked what that looked like and said, “a line”. “ Hmmm”, I said, “don’t you think that’s funny that the first two numbers are a circle and line and that’s what you said the glyph wheel looked like to you?” He said, “I know what comes next”. I asked what was one plus one. “Two”. What’s two plus one? “Three, Poppy I know what comes next”. This is where the teacher became a student.
I fully assumed that he was going to say that four was the next number, so I asked Charlie, “OK what is it Mr. smarty pants?” To my astonishment he pointed to the figures on the page and said, “three plus two equals five!”He had picked up on the Fibonacci number sequence progression. We then worked through this all the way to 144. Not only that, but then I showed him how to graph that out and he then drew the boxes and the beginning spiral line!
Then I directed his attention back to the glyph wheel on the T.V. pointing to all the lesson glyphs I asked him to count them all. He said, “I don’t have to Poppy, I already know, there’s 144.” Schooled again by a 6 year old.
“Poppy, this isn’t karate”, he declared. “Stand up, show me your attention stance”, I asked. Up he got and I mirrored that. “What do I look like?”, I asked. “A straight line”. Now hold your arm up and open your hand I asked him. “What does that look like?” “A straight line Poppy”. Now make a fist. “Is that like a circle?” “Yes, Poppy”.
I went back to the glyph wheel. “Tell me what you think are the three most important colours in this circle”, as I pointed to the section glyphs. “Red, yellow and blue, Poppy”. I then asked him what he thought the images within those colours looked like, and he replied with “my eyes”, “my ears” and a “hi-five”, lol.
From here I went on to showing him how to do an upward block and pointed out how the path of the movement of his arm went from a straight line into a curve has it passed over his head. His little face lit up, “That’s like Paw Patrol but more, with a little bit extra”.
This entire event only went for about 15 or 20 minutes being the limited of his attention span, but within that space of time we touched on , colours, math, reading, writing, sight, sound, touch, and physical movement.
When he left to go home later that day, he gave me a hug and a kiss goodbye and said, “I will keep practicing my mind Poppy.”
I love this little guy so much.
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Tony Perez
Mar 26, 2024
In General Discussion
As I sit here in hospital awaiting surgery to eradicate an unwanted kidney stone, I’m feeling a little vulnerable because this is the first time in my life I’ve ever really been so unwell as to require surgery. This sense of vulnerability gave rise to the thoughts in this post.
Paxtial Arts offers a larger perspective that you can take everywhere. Take it for what it is worth. You don’t have to be convinced of it but it can be like scratching at the back of your mind when you are seeking a deeper understanding of the world and your place in it.
Immersing yourself in this field of study will deepen your awareness and enhance your consciousness. And when you have experienced this you are then encouraged not to teach or convince others, but rather to share with others what you have realised.
Humans are oriented to conflict. In the modern history of martial arts have we really gotten anywhere, or are we still arguing about who got it right? Have you ever noticed how divisive or even polarising different martial arts “styles” or organisations are, even within their own ranks? This is because their essence is tribal. There is an. “In group” and an “out group”. Through these individual belief systems we come to understand the world through conflict rather than contrast. Separation orientates you to conflict.
When you understand life in this way you are living under threat because you are living in a small world. You think you have the correct answers because you can’t hear any other answers. It’s the old adage of “Don’t bother me with the facts, I’ve already made up my mind”. There are no one size fits all answers.
Paxtial Arts is an open dialogue that offers an introduction to a deeper conversation centred on expanding awareness and increasing human potential. Paxtial Arts allows your imagination to graduate to a higher level of consciousness to discover that the true source of peace lies within one’s own soul. Why? Because you take that with you wherever you go.
The Way of Paxtial Arts is by discovery, participation, and feeling. These attractions lay naturally within you, not instructed to you and are therefore authentic - they are already in you and will arise spontaneously.
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Tony Perez
Jan 17, 2024
In General Discussion
Aloha everyone, the Lesson 11 Mindscape video has been posted and I've started working on the lesson plan this evening. Hope to have it available for Andrew to post within the next few days. Thanks for your patience.
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Tony Perez
Dec 31, 2023
In General Discussion
Wishing everyone all the best for 2024, the Year of the Dragon and the dawning of a new era.
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Tony Perez
Dec 30, 2023
In General Discussion
During my recent stay in Hawaii whilst making my way home from visiting Mr. and Mrs. Parker, I had the opportunity to do some research into Hawaiian culture and in particular, the Hawaiian art of Lua. I learned alot about the deep sprirituality of the Hawaiian culture which echoed some of the discussions I had with Mr. and Mrs. Parker about syncronicity, spititual guides and legacy. I experienced some weird occurances on my pilrimmage which caused me to stop and ponder how many coincidences can their be before it becomes mathematically impossible. Many things made me go, hmmm.
One of the more interesting things I learned was that Hawaiian’s believe that when you are out of alignment, when you step away from your responsibilities, your ancestors have no identity because their line stops with you. So when you are lost and out of balance and you step away from your responsibilities, and from your place in community then interestingly your ancestors, your line stops – there’s no more future.
It's a bit of a long post so I've attached it as a file below for your to read.
This book is a good read too.
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Tony Perez
Dec 22, 2023
In General Discussion
As we approach another Christmas, my wish is that we can all activate our heroic potential to lead our best lives with courage and love, to usher in the birth of a new era where peace and goodwill flourishes for humanity.
Thank you for your friendship throughout this year and let's play the pipes of peace into a united and harmonious future for all.
From my family to yours, may you all enjoy a wonderful Christmas and I hope that 2024, (the year of the dragon), is the year that you thrive in health and love, happiness and peace.
In light of all the terrible and fearful things going on around the world right now, I think this song has a lot to say and I'd like to share that with you. When the War is Over - John Farnham.
Aloha and maluhia
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Tony Perez
Dec 15, 2023
In General Discussion
I have just spent 3 incredible days with Mr. and Mrs. Parker at Chateau de Parker and the Snow Globe Cafe. The experience was uplifting and it reinforced to me the monumental power that Paxtial Arts has to humbly and heroically blaze a new trail.
It also awakened me to the very real possibility that each of us, one by one can help humankind to flourish and to do the greatest good in ways never thought possible.
It is so fitting that Chateau de Parker is ground zero for Paxtial Arts. Peace, goodwill and abundance live there. I have felt the energy and a presence that eminates from both Mr. and Mrs. Parker that is just so sincere and authentic. We are all so very fortunate to have them as our beacon.
If you have the opportunity to visit them, take it! I can talk to you about it. I can show you pictures. But it is something that you need to feel and experience. It will touch your soul.
As I write this, I'm sitting at the Splash Bar of the Sheraton Kaiulani Hotel in Waikiki listening to the beautiful tones of Hawaiian music. I was mesmerised by a Hawaiian sunset earlier this evening as I stood fully grounded at the waters edge of Waikiki Beach.
This trip as been my personal Camino pilgrimage and to round-out this adventure, I took a 10km walk this morning to what is arguably the birthplace of Kenpo Karate, the Nu'uanu Y.M.C. A. Now, 10kms I agree is not much of walk but with my Achilles heel injury on my left ankle and plantar fasciitis of my right heel, every step was like walking barefoot on stones, and it hurty a lot, lol.
Anyway I was in search of the commemorative plaque to Professor William Kwai-sun Chow which was placed there about 2007. Unfortunately it was no longer there but I got to speak to one of the Y.M.C.A. staff, a guy named Dane Tai. He had no idea of the spiritual and culture significance of this building and before I knew it, I was giving a history lesson to 6 people who were equally unaware.
They were blown away that this old guy who just walked in off the street from Australia, knew more than they did about their own culture and history. I mean to kenpo people, this place is somewhat holy ground.
Anyway Dane said he knew some of the old directors and he would see if he could track down its whereabouts. Nonetheless it was well worth the walk even though it poured rain just before I got there. That’s called a Hawaiian blessing.
It got me thinking that we must never let history be erased. It is through the stories from history that our ancestors live on in us. And so we must leave a legacy to our children and grandchildren, a legacy that speaks of peace, kindeness and love, compassion and gratitude. The spirit of aloha.
Time for a Lava Flow cocktail as a nightcap. (I promise only one, lol).
Aloha and maluhia,
Tony
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Tony Perez
Sep 23, 2023
In General Discussion
I took my grandson Charlie to see the new Paw Patrol movie yesterday.
Whilst I was sitting there totally enjoying it watching the joy and wonderment on his little face, I couldn't help but see some paralells with us. What do you think?
Paxtial Arts, influenced by Martial Arts ..."but more...with just a little bit extra."
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Tony Perez
Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted from General Discussion 11/05/23)
I used Paxtial Arts earlier this morning!
A work colleague shared her anger and frustration with me about an incident within her family overnight. She said a particular person had crossed a line with their behaviour, deeply upsetting my colleague and leaving her feeling that a bridge had been burned.
My colleague emphasised that she was the bigger bear and that there was no turning back. It was ‘Flame on.’
I said that it is often better to build bridges than burn them and that in situations like this it is always better to seek first to understand before being understood. (Thank you Stephen Covey).
Her reply was, ‘I didn’t start this and I didn’t do anything wrong.’
Acknowledging this I said that I didn’t think or infer that she had done anything right or wrong. I then asked her what was her end game, how did she see this playing out.
She asked me what I meant and I asked her it could be worth just contemplating the possibility of another way. ‘No way, I’m the bigger bear, she has burned that bridge.’
I said that there were two ways of being the bigger bear. Physically is one way, but often bigger bears have bigger scars from the more battles they have fought. The other way is to walk the higher path so you can pass by each other on a bridge of respect rather than blowing it up behind you. I said, ‘You carry that anger around like a canoe on your back. The usefulness of a canoe is in getting from one island to another. Once you’ve reached the shoreline, there’s no need to lug it to the campsite, let it go.’
Instantly her demeanour changed, it was that noticeable.
I said, ‘put your shields down and just go and talk, listen, care and then you may both be bigger bears, but with fewer scars.’
Tears welled up in her eyes and a smile came over her face.
My colleague just messaged me this; "2 bears are paddling the same canoe. Thank you."
This little exchange made me realise that unlike Martial Arts, we can practically use Paxtial Arts skills everyday in various situations. It all begins by giving ourselves permission to just consider something different. But that’s why we are all here right?
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Tony Perez
Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted from General Discussion 20/04/23)
I'm really enjoying these lesson's of mindfulness stories being so carefully packaged within our lesson videos.
The recent Mindflip lesson reminded me of a story I once read about a guy named Terry Dobson when he was living in Japan and training Aikido with O’ Sensei in the '60s. As the story goes, he was riding a train where he encountered a disruptive drunk creating a scene and threatening other passengers. As Terry tells the story, he always wanted to test his martial art skills and as a big guy of 6ft. 225lbs, young and strong, he thought this was as good a time as any to turn into a superhero to rescue the passengers.
Anyway, as Terry stood up to confront the drunk, a voice from an old man who was sitting nearby yelled out to the drunk, “Hey!” and as the drunk turned the old man asked, “What have you been drinking?” The drunk answered, “Sake!” At that, the old man said, “My wife and I love sake, and often drink a warm cup at sundown in our garden and look at how our persimmon tree is doing.” The drunk quietly responded, "I love persimmons, too," as his voice trailed off. “Yes,” said the old man, smiling, “and I’m sure you have a wonderful wife.” “No, I don’t” replied the drunk. “My wife is dead.” Very gently, swaying with the motion of the train, the drunken man began to cry. “I have no wife, I don’t have a home or a job. I am so ashamed of myself.” Tears rolled down his cheeks; a spasm of despair rippled through his body.
Terry got off at the next stop and as the train pulled away, he sat down on a bench. What he had wanted to do with muscle had been accomplished with kind words, empathy and understanding. He had just seen Aikido tested in combat, and the essence, the soul of it, was love. He said that he would have to practice the art with an entirely different spirit (I like the term, intent), from then on.
(He had just experienced a Mindflip moment instigated by what is known in psychology circles as a pattern interrupt. This is a technique to alter a person's mental, emotional, or behavioral state to break their typical habits. Think of it as an unexpected input that shocks them into another state of mind).
When I started Taekwon-Do at the age of fourteen, I loved stories like this as much as I loved the techniques. I'm sure some of you can relate, it was part of the times and I’m sure too, that at some point in our journey we have all romanticized about donning a mask and cape, and saving the innocents by destroying the guilty.
What I liked about this story was that it was concerned with not just how to "do" something but also how to "be" something. Today, I refer to this “being something” as “being uncommon”. Did someone say Paxtial Arts?
Stories and storytellers like Terry Dobson were gems and sadly less valued today as we live in a world of reality TV shows, a win at all cost mentality and utilitarianism ethics, (as Mr. Spock would say, the needs of the many, outweigh the needs of the few).
Long live the inspirational storytellers like Mr. and Mrs. Parker. We need them now more than ever. They are reaching into our humanity and influencing the story we quietly tell ourselves, and what we, will tell others as we go forward.
(And speaking of storytelling, here’s the best story I’ve ever heard - Kramer Is Drivin’ The Bus. Take a few minutes and laugh at this as you channel your inner Batman (or Bat Girl) to save the day, lol).
Kramer Is Drivin' The Bus,https://youtu.be/cmlCAhrAWYw
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Tony Perez
Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted from General DIscussion 29/04/23)
My six year old grandson Charles, paid my wife Leah and I a visit this afternoon. He was quietly watching his favorite cartoon show on T.V. - Paw Patrol. It's about a group of cute, superpower endowed puppies and their antics in their home of Adventure Bay. They have a couple of phrases they use as a call to arms. One is, "I've got this" and another is, "Paw Patrol, we're on a roll."
Anyway, at the same time I was speaking with some friends who had dropped by about the Paxtial Arts. We had been speaking for a little while when all of a sudden Charles (who has Autism and a small speech impediment) stepped in front of me, assumed his meditation horse stance (I've taught him to make that position when he is feeling a little heightened, and then to stand as still as a statue, and just blink and breathe), then, in his super hero voice he said,
"Poppy, let's do this! Packs All Patrol is on a roll." Hillarious!
I love this little guy so much.
So, let's take Charles' lead, "Let's do this, Paxtial Patrol is on a roll"
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Tony Perez
Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted from General Discussion 12/04/23)
I'm reading a new book at the moment - Total Aikido: The Master Course, and came across this quote by the author, Gozo Shioda. Shioda sensei was one of the last living links directly back to Aikido founder Morihei Ueshiba.
"It is said that aikido is the Way of Harmony.
I think it is simple to explain this saying.
If you face someone, and you can make that person's animosity disappear, by your own true character, this is the Harmony of Becoming One. This is not a compromise.
Harmony is a matter of having strength yourself, and then making the other your ally.
He becomes your partner. This is 'making harmony in opposition.'
But, unless you accumulate virtue, it is impossible.
To sum up, the foundation is your own inner strength."
I am an avid reader and have this prized collection of MA books in my library, many I've had for 50 years. Here's a picture of some of them. The pages are yellowed and worn in several but every page still speaks to me and every time I pick up anyone of these much loved pages of my life, I never fail to learn something new.
Do any of you of any of these titles in your library? If so what's your favorite? Why? Do you have others you would recommend?
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Tony Perez
Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted from General DIscussion 22/03/23)
Hi guys, please bear with me while I try to flesh out my current line of thought. (I’m not sleeping very much at present – my wife is having a well earned holiday in London, so it’s just me, our dog and my mind running rampant, lol – thanks Ed and Baer for stirring the pot; I'm very tired but loving every minute of this.)
In an earlier post I referred to an old Chinese saying that goes something like, “to rid yourself of a disease, you first must become one with the disease.” Therefore to overcome violence we must accept its presence and ideally believe in the remedy, peace. (I include acceptance as an addition to the Eight Considerations of combat found in Kenpo) because acceptance is the first step towards managing fear.
The positive self-talk of acceptance is, "well OK here’s the situation I’m in, it sucks, but here’s what I intend to do about it." The opposite of acceptance is denial. Denial prompts us to stick our heads in the sand questioning "Why is this happening to me, I don’t deserve this." Not particularly empowering, don’t you think? Denial has a close friend – apathy. Here in Australia we have a common saying that reflects this, “Ah don’t worry about it mate, she’ll be right.”
Though we live in the exponential-age, we still have prehistoric minds. For survival’s sake we are hard-wired to be competitive, territorial and violent. There may be some who may disagree, and who would insist that they could never hurt or kill anyone, but they invariably add a revealing proviso; “Unless, of course, someone tried to hurt a loved one.”
So, it could be said the capacity of violence is in each of us; all that varies is our view of the justification. (Even the Kenpo creed speaks to this, ” ……I have no weapons BUT if it’s a matter of life or death, of right or wrong….” What’s your definition of right or wrong?)
Justification is dictated by our environment – what is in us, on us and around us – what we believe in, the circumstance we are dealing with right now, and who are we hanging out with, listening to, reading or watching etc.
In his book The Gift of Fear, author Gavin De Becker (this book should be in everyone's library) shared a story that Albert Einstein and Sigmund Freud once exchanged correspondence exploring the concept of human violence. Einstein’s letter surmised that; “man has in him the need to hate and destroy."
In his reply, Freud agreed “unreservedly,” adding that human instincts could be divided into two categories; “those which seek to preserve and unite, and those which seek to destroy and kill.” He wrote that the experience of life evolves from their “acting together and against each other.”
I’ve read too that the Gladwell Effect, (mastery of skill takes 10,000 hours of practice – repetition is the mother of skill, concept) can be hacked - to shortcut the time it takes to achieve an elite level of skill. How can that be done?
Well, apparently Gladwell's assertions are based on a "common" untrained mind. Certainly, intuition can arise due to intense focus on a limited set of skills over an extended period of time - as martial artists we know this to be true. But when the mind-body system is actively aligned and occupied with training (integrated in a manner such as in how Paxtial Arts is organized) then perhaps there is the possibility that the ideals of self-mastery that Gladwell refers to can be achieved over a shorter arc of time. Now I qualify that by saying that I don’t know of any actual scientific data to support this but there is empirical and anecdotal evidence that does.
Greek mathematician Archimedes said; “Give me a lever long enough and a fulcrum on which to place it, and I shall move the world.”
I'm drawn to think that perhaps the Paxtial Arts has the potential to become that fulcrum to create a tipping point and we can act as a lever where there are more of us acting together, sooner to “preserve and unite.”
What do you think? (I'm done thinking for tonight - lol)
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Tony Perez
Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted form General DIscussion 16/04/23)
Now that I have set sail on this journey of self-discovery with the Paxtial Arts, I am firmly of the belief that this new-found knowledge will lead to great personal power. Power can often have a negative connotation but here is how I see it.
I like to define power as an ability to act in a particular manner, or a way that can guide or influence. Power is distinct from force which could be defined as a physical movement that compels or coerces a particular response. Power then acts independently of force and relies upon a skill set or range of innate attributes to achieve an outcome, compared to the physical nature of a push or pull.
So, without true power to achieve long lasting change or meaningful goals, we would have to either rely on force (like a bully) or hope (like a daydreamer). Since we are here with the Paxtial Arts, none of us are or wish to be bullies, nor are we content to be idle. This would suggest that we desire to develop personal power that can be used in the service of something greater than us – humankind.
The Rat Race video in Lesson 6 really got me thinking about running on the treadmill of life every day, to the beat of someone else’s drum. As martial artists we all have developed our signature moves, our favourites, but what about our “moves” to achieve deep mental, emotional and soulful growth?
I learned the framework of the following moves from my studies with The SEALFIT Unbeatable Mind Academy and I’d like to share these with you. This knowledge helped me during a very challenging period in my life and I hope you see value in them too and allied with our Paxtial Arts training.
1. The Wake-Up Move: This move is to awaken to your story and begin to live life on your own terms, not the pre-conditioned terms or those imposed by others. This awakening is often a deeply moving experience, where a strong link to nature and spirit is felt, leaving you altered and thirsty for greater insight and wisdom – and freed from the shackles of previous limiting believes and negative behaviours.
2. The Grow-Up Move: This move is the essence of physical and mental growth. We grow biologically and psychologically but this is limited. If we can learn to infuse emotional and soulful growth then we can re-ignite ourselves to reach our fullest potential as a human being, which is exactly what the world needs right now. That potential can then be translated into power in the last move.
3. The Clean-Up Move: This move is really challenging for most because it involves working on our past emotional baggage, those patterns and “stuck doors” that are hampering our performance and limiting our power right now. "Polishing the Mirror" or Cleaning-up within is like personal grooming without – presentation is everything. Without this introspection we can constrict ourselves and be exposed to self-sabotage.
4. The Open-Up Move: This move is an inward one, where you open-up to the innate wisdom of your soulful self. You learn to trust your gut and see insights more clearly. You make decisions from the higher-self and are in control of your thoughts, emotions and behaviours to an uncommon degree. This is Self-Mastery in its purest form. This move must come after the first three (there’s that majestic number again), as stunted development can prevent inward movement, making it very difficult to open-up to your intuitive and soulful intelligence. Ironically, the opposite also applies – you can’t move without, whilst remaining still within.
5. The Show-Up Move: This move is where your personal power is projected. The first four moves develop deep potential. When your Mindscope is focused on a worthy target, that potential will deliver extraordinary power. Showing-up is about taking massive action that is energized by your full potential, inspired by your purpose and navigated by winning principles.
These are powerful moves, which can mean the difference between being a contender or a pretender which reminds me of what Jackson Browne wrote about in his song, The Pretender - "Are you there? Say a prayer for the pretender. Who started out so young and strong only to surrender."
The Pretender,https://youtu.be/SqRvJLH_-vU
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Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted from General Discussion 18/04/23)
GIFTS + MAGIC = THE PAXTIAL ARTS
Gift. n. a special ability or capacity: natural endowments; talent
Mag-ic, n. the ability to create something that is honest and full of wonder.
Play + Enthusiasm + Energy + Focus + Urgency + Leadership = LIVING
Wonder + Curiosity + Questioning + Creativity + Innovation + Trying - Failing = EXPLORING
Participation + Comfort + Accomplishment = BELONGING
(I'm no mathematician but there has to be a cool formula to express this)
Q. Did you ever wonder why adults are always asking children what they want to be when they grow up?
A. Because they are still searching for ideas themselves.
The things that make you go hmmm?
Maluhia everyone
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Sep 18, 2023
In General Discussion
(Re-posted form General Discussion 11/07/23)
“Respect yourself enough to walk away from anything that no longer serves you, grows you, or makes you happy.”
—Robert Tew
If that means not being 'normal', I'm good with that.
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